I write this based on my objectivity, somehow I doubt if it's really objective.
I write this doesn't mean that I'm super right, I know that I'm just one of these people whom I'm gonna talk about.
People, without a must to talk honestly and out loud about what's happening in their minds, will always have opinions about everything and everyone, no one can ever stop and deny it.
They don't have to talk about it, they're free to keep it to themselves, they have their own reasons or they don't need any reason at all.
But people, with all their needs, always want to talk and be heard when they're talking.
They give opinion and more opinions, they talk all they want, once they get heard, they go on talking.
In other words, they want others to agree with them, it is the point, even when they try to ask others' opinions, to be democratic, they think.
When the others start talking, they try to listen, but they can't help it, they don't want to listen, so they pretend.
They give the look that shows full attention when others talk, but in their minds they're just some stupid egoist narcissists.
They get bored, they want so much to get out of the room, curse everyone in it.
But they choose to try, keep on pretending, be patient, don't want to lose some respect, really?
Then time passed, it's their turn, they give some opinions based on their shallow attention, have some arguments with no solutions, just causing new problems, it's like a vicious circle.
Because when they're all finished, it's not actually finished, it never is.
Then again, people, with their big ego, will always talk a lot when they feel superior or when they feel like having some confident, but somehow, they're being someone who like to underestimate everyone. And because of that they stop listening.
In fact, they're the stupid egoist narcissists.
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